What comes to mind when you hear sexy mama. To me, I think a
hot mom. I am totally fine with those words. But lately I have been going
through something as a women and a mom. I am having trouble with the way I
dress. Now my clothes are fitting very nicely because of my lifestyle and all.
But that’s not the reason for this weirdness. I am having the hardest time with
feeling comfortable in “sexy” clothing. And I am not talking about like super
reveling outfits or anything crazy. Just like low cut dresses and shorter
shorts nothing super outrageous.
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| I did get in trouble at church for not wearing sleeves. Oops! |
Since having my son I just don’t think it’s
appropriate for me. Now before baby I would wear a low cut shirt, backless,
short dress like nobodies business. But right now I don’t think I can. I don’t
feel like a mom when I wear that. Davis and I have always had a clear
understanding when it comes to this. What I wear is my choice. No one else has
the right to tell me what I can wear. He
met me wearing the clothing that I like and that’s one thing that attracted him
to me so why would that change. I know you adapt and change your style over the
years but hey I am still a young woman. Now I don’t judge other mom’s who dress
sexy and reveling. I actually like what other women wear so it’s not like I see
a mom wearing a mini skirt and think badly or anything like that. Is it just me?
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| This is before Charles. It's a shorted dress with lace so to me it was riskay.. |
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| Spaghetti straps and super low cut cleavage no biggie before baby. |
I recently I bought a couple
of little black dresses and I still can’t bring myself to wear them because
they are to low-cut. (not my actual dresses but pretty close.
Dress 1 and
Dress 2) Davis
loves the way they look but I think they show too much chest. As a rule for
dressing I have always been on the conservative side. If I show leg my chest is
covered, if I wear a tank top I wear a cardigan or jeans. So I only show skin
in one of the major areas. It’s what works best for me.
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| Short shorts no cleavage out. |
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| Now here I am a rule breaker, chest arms and legs. Sexy Mama. |
But now I want to wear
a tank under my dress and throw a sweater or cardigan over the whole outfit. So
am I alone in this? To my mama’s out there is there anything that you won’t
wear because you’re a mom?
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| Now I'm a mom so I wear this! Lol |
I would love to hear back from some of you who have
gone through a similar experience. I hope you are all having an amazing week
only 2 more days till the start of the weekend!
